Yesterday, a friend with great interest and I talked about his 5-year-old daughter: your face and say, l If you are not happy if I'm not a hhr Oh, so you can not. but to say that l buy a bar to buy one. r heart ah! give you sour to buy. ;: As long as you do not buy, is not happy, is approximately equal to not love her. This is a huge father lethal mm mm related to the parents whether patriotic children in this will obediently into submission.
even manipulation of children from their parents so small to begin! though unconscious, but undoubtedly very successful.
children manipulate their parents to love their parents as the starting point, with the the depth gradually over time. year-old children to learn they do not eat well, so my mother to fed;-year-old will be crying and say, things; the parents of teenagers can become wash your socks, bed in the morning wake up call to parents, to release the laces of shoes placed at the bedside, the parents to make your bed, to pack, but also to fasten bag strap hh father said to me helplessly, ! and children living together is not a party will make every effort to meet the material needs of the child to become the burden of his pack fixed; good parents face child easily manipulated mm more children are met in front of outsiders, threatening are often effective; self-expansion parents can easily be manipulated mm mobilize more social resources of the parents, everything is paved way for the children, the children got him into trouble can trivialize anything, the Albatron straight to the child, but often counterproductive , not a device is not only children, also driven by their parents into any mules.
children from birth to communicate with their parents to learn control of their parents, the experience gained from the practice of the profound and practical, parents tend to underestimate children, they have been > to prevent and get rid of such control, you need parents to distinguish between to give them the needed nutrients (the spirit of modern society, nutrition is more important); to prevent and get rid of this manipulation, psychological need to be able to withstand the pressure of parents, love for the child's long-term development need to take responsibility, including the child when the time do not force the children to understand accepted or rejected, can not be used to meet the children to avoid their weakness; to prevent and get rid of this manipulation, the most important thing is to love, security deficiencies, lack of strength caused by self-growth.
short, is the interpersonal manipulation in a bad way, beyond the
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